Monday, January 16, 2012

I have a dream

     In honor of MLK day I thought I would write my own I have a dream speech.  This is also a disclaimer that all of my dreams are not of the serious nature, with that being said I mean no disrespect to the late Dr. King!



    I have a dream that we as a nation and we individually as a people will start taking personal responsibility for our actions.  I believe to truly grow and change we must stop blaming others and realize our part in the wrongs of our nation.  There comes a time in a nations history when we stop blaming the prior president (no matter how much at fault they are), we must stop blaming the other political party as we both parties have their faults, we must stop blaming the rich and in turn we must stop blaming poor, and while doing this we inevitably take responsibility for our actions and figure out how we can fix this peacefully TOGETHER.  Personally, when do we start saying I was wrong and I am sorry.  Instead we are so quick to blame the other person, our past, alcohol, drugs, our environment, our financial situation, the fact that the person in front of us was driving too slow, the list could go on forever.  Don't get me wrong, these things are serious and definitely can change our lives, but they can also change our lives for the better if we allow them.  If you have been on the receiving end you know how powerful a simple I am sorry and then a change of behavior can be.
     I have a dream that one day we will have a sioux hockey team again that can complete their passes, doesn't pass the puck right in front of their own goal with an opposing skater in the middle, a team that can actually run plays, that plays a whole 60 minutes, and that wins a national championship.
     I have visions of a world where people ask questions.  Instead of staring at someone that looks different, they ask them about their disability.  Instead of shoving opinions down each others throats we ask the question why they have that opinion.  If you read something in your bible and don't get it, ask.  We ask others about their lives, their days, their joys and their sadness.  That we are a nation that asks for help.
     I have a dream that Sophia and Lauren will grow up in a world void of war.  A world that only knows peace and harmony.  A world that is full of love and not hate.  A community where they are loved so much that they have nothing to do but love back.  A world where there is no fear.  A world that they feel safe to live in.  A world that is as beautiful as God created it.
     I hope that with all the technological advances, someday a doctor will decide that soda, candy and chips is a much better diet than water, fruits, and veggies.
     I have a dream that one day Christians will stop just reading and preaching the gospel, but also walking it.  I MUST SAY I DO KNOW A LOT OF CHRISTIANS WHO DO WALK THE GOSPEL.  That we as Christians will see that Jesus hung out with the most scandalous people of the bible.  That He did not condone their behavior nor did He judge them, condemn them on earth, or not speak to them.  He showed them the gospel through His love.  What a better way to expose someone to the love of Christ than to Love them as Christ would.  We as Christians are not the judge, jury and executioner.  We are simply God's people trying to carry his message.
     I have a dream that one day we will truly judge people by what is on the inside not the outside.  This is much more than just a color of your skin situation.   In our society today it is a color of your hair, tattoos on your bodies, piercings, clothes on your bodies, what kind of car you are driving, how much you weigh etc.  We are so much more than that.  We are humans with a heart and with a soul.  Every time we make fun of someone who is different from us, that person may act strong but on the inside it scratches their heart just a bit.  We need to remember that our words and actions do hurt people.
     Finally, I dream of a day that non pet people will realize that yes we really do see our pets as our children. We truly love them as much as you love your kids.  I know that is hard for you to believe, but it is the truth.  They hold all of our secrets.  They love us unconditionally.  They are always excited to see you (well maybe not charlie).  They Protect us even if they are only ten pounds.  I tell Lucy the plan for the day and she listens. They are the loves of my life.  So in my dream people will not dismiss them as just pets or animals...
  So this is probably the most controversial post I have written.  If it does not apply to you then just move along.  I am guilty of all of the above things, except the pet thing of course.  These are things I dream of happening, I don't live in la la land and think they are all possible.  But I will try to do what I can to make them possible.  In all honesty I sometimes think of God and how he must mourn at what this world has become, and that makes me sad.   Again just my thoughts and i am more than willing to hear yours....

Monday, January 9, 2012

Confessions of a dvr

A lot of people would ask their best friends to burn their diaries, erase their history on their computers, or get rid of some embarrassing or private material upon their death. Not me. ERASE MY DVR!!! With that said as a blogger I am oing to expose you to the list of shows on my dvr right now...hold on you may be surprised by some :)
2 broke girls
All-American Muslim
Chef Roble & co.
Desperate housewives
Fear factor
Girls: daughter left behind
Grey's anatomy
Hgtv dream home 2012
Happy endings
Hoarders
It's a brad brad world
Jig
Law&order
Modern family
Modern marvels
Once upon a time
Oe born every minute
Oprah's next chapter
Parking war's
Private practice
Project runway all stars
Property brothers
Real housewives of Beverly hills and Atlanta
Revenge
Suburgatory
Texas multi mamas
The bride was 7
The middle
The people's court
The view
Watch what happens:live
Wizards of waverly place

So there you have it...I feel much freer now that I put that out there...

Now onto more important issues. My new year's Practices to mark 2012 a happy one are going pretty well. I have been using my iPad and iPhone more and they do the auto capatalize so they are sorta enabling me. So if you have been paying attention do not give me the credit I don't deserve it. My morning meditations have gotten better. I still am not reading all of the books I was reading before I pick a select few and focus on them. It is amazing to me how God seeMs to always know what it is that I need to hear. The walking is getting better and my little Lucy is the best walking partner. Today our walk (with the walker) was 18 minutes. Pretty proud of that. Finally, history I am all into it. I have been watching documentaries like crazy and I have come to the conclusion that that JFK was not assassinated the way the government said he was. I have not figured it out yet but when I do I will let you know. If it were this day and age I would blame it on the animals of shady oaks. I know this is a pretty random post but that is me.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

2012


     I must say that 2011 was kind of a sucky year.  It seemed as though whatever could go wrong did go wrong.  I could go on and on about all the crappy stuft, but I am not going to.  I just want to tell you that this year we lost my stepdad.  He was a great man of faith and family and he is missed every day!!!
This picture was taken 2 weeks before he died.  I will cherish that time with him always~~~
    A couple months later we lost the patriarch of our family.  Grandpa Doherty.  This picture is also taken the last time I saw him.  He was a wonderful man and he is greatly missed.
     My church family also lost their dad/husband this year.  He also was a man of great faith and a man who adored his family.  Over my years here the Trontvet's have become family to me.  I watch them grieve but also stay so true to their faith and each other.
Thanks for all the extra smiles Randy!!!

     So this is how I transition...These three wonderful men are up in heaven with God.  And they aren't sick anymore.  Sometimes that doesn't matter as they are missed so much, but knowing where they are takes away the sting a bit.  It may seem that they did not fulfill what they should have, marraiges missed, Grandchildren not growing up with their grandpas, and just so much time and memories to make still. Wha I need to remember is that God's promise was fulfilled and they are in a better place.  I often just sit back and think of what joy they must be experiencing in heaven.  They are my inspiration for a better 2012.
     I am not one to make resolutions because I am so not a rule follower that knowing there is a rule makes me just want to do the opposite.  So this year I thought that I would share with you the things that I hope to make 2012 a happy year...
I would like to blog more.
I plan to write that children's book that I have been talking about "I miss my grandpa lee"
I hope to run the turkey trot with my family at thanksgiving.
DONE!!!!!!
I would like to journal more again.
I would like to do a better job of being consistent with my meditation books.
I want to follow the will of God even when it hurts.
I will cherish those who are in my life.
I want to learn more about history.  Yes CEC finally and you don't even have to pay me.
I would like to complete more random acts of kindness.
I would like to be happy with where I am and strive to be better.
I want to be the best mommy, aunt, sister and sister in law, daughter and friend that I can be.
I dream of reading the bible cover to cover.
I am gonna try harder to capitalize.
     I hope I continue to grow.  I continue to be fun to be with, loving and caring.  I will still be goofy.  I will probably still be wearing hats and pjs and I am okay with that.  I hope my faith light shows.  I hope people see me as a woman of faith.  I want to continue loving my kids like they are little humans.  Of course I haven't told you all, but i think you get the drift...I AM HOPEFUL FOR THE YEAR 2012!!!
   My mom made me write this.  This year I plan on being nicer to other dogs (although I don't know why I have to).  I will love my brothers ;).  I hope to be the best cuddler of the year.
UHH what is a new years resolution
My new years resolution is to find a new home!

HAPPY 2012 EVERYONE!!!